| There is a huge misconception about romantic pick up | | | | beautiful woman he just meant. They spent three |
| lines. Once you understand what makes them work | | | | minutes talking about robots, and then he was making |
| and not work, then you'll find you can turn almost | | | | out with her. |
| anything into a romantic pick up line. However, if you | | | | Afterwards I said to him, What the heck. How did you |
| fail to grasp this concept, then you will never be able to | | | | talking about robots lead to her wanting to kiss you? |
| deliver a line romantically, even if it's the best line in the | | | | That's when he told me about sub-communication. |
| world. | | | | There were really two conversations going on there. |
| The concept I'm referring to is congruence. Let me | | | | One was with words and wasn't very important. The |
| illustrate what I mean with a story. | | | | other was with vocal tonality and body language. |
| Let's say you tell me, I'm confident. But you say it in the | | | | The sub communication is always more powerful. |
| weakest, most utterly pathetic voice known to | | | | Finally, remember that using romantic pick up lines also |
| mankind. Am I going to believe you? Of course not. | | | | comes down to timing. In this instance, the wrong timing |
| That's because your vocal tonality is not congruent | | | | can negate the best words, best body language and |
| with the words you're speaking. | | | | best delivery. If she just broke up with her boyfriend |
| Okay, how about this one. You say, I'm confident, but | | | | and has become a man hater, you are going to lose |
| you're slouched over, staring at the ground and unable | | | | no matter what. |
| to look me in the eyes. Am I going to believe you? | | | | So the last takeaway from this article is to be more |
| Hardly. Your body language is incongruent with the | | | | observant about the circumstances. Learn to read her |
| words you speak. | | | | body language before you deliver your romantic pick |
| Get it? Before you learn any cool romantic pick up | | | | up line. If she has body language that indicates she will |
| lines, you must learn vocal tonality and body language, | | | | not be receptive to you, then tread lightly and be |
| so you can deliver them properly. | | | | careful. Maybe loose her up slowly, and wait for the |
| I'll never forget it, I had a friend who just had a way | | | | right timing. Then deliver your Casanova like material. |
| with women. I watched him one night interact with a | | | | |